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When Everything Changes: An invitation to Trust God
I’ll be honest, I don’t like change. I don’t like when people leave, when the familiar disappears, or when the road ahead is unclear. Change always feels like it’s taking something from me, like the solid ground beneath my feet has shifted again. But lately I’m learning that change isn’t just disruption. It’s an invitation. This past weekend, when my pastor announced that he would be moving on to a new chapter, I felt it in my gut. There was sadness, gratitude, and a quiet ac
Alec Gonzales
Nov 33 min read
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When Love Comes First
There’s a subtle tension in John 15 that’s easy to miss until you sit with it for a while. Jesus says, “If you keep my commands, you will...
Alec Gonzales
Oct 123 min read
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Just the Three Feet in Front of You
About twenty years ago, I was in a small group with a friend who told a story I’ve never forgotten and thought about often about it over...
Alec Gonzales
Oct 92 min read
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Every Pastor Needs a Spiritual Director
Spiritual direction helps pastors notice, language, and nurture intimacy with God the real source and what best renews us for ministry.
Alec Gonzales
Oct 43 min read
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Three reasons Every pastor Needs a Coach
Pastors always carry more than anyone realizes. Of course there is sermon prep, planning the future. What about family tension loneliness...
Alec Gonzales
Sep 292 min read
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Sermon Prep Isn't Soul Care
Sermon prep does not constitute soul care. But most pastors act like it does.
Alec Gonzales
Sep 232 min read
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God is not an ogre
God loves you but won't force friendship with himself on anyone, it is a reciprocal relationship.
Alec Gonzales
Sep 162 min read
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Coming Clean as Worship
Pastor, there’s a scene in Joshua that speaks powerfully to us. After Israel’s defeat at Ai, Achan was found hiding what he had taken....
Alec Gonzales
Sep 141 min read
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The Best Thing in Life
Last night at the fair, I was at a booth sharing the gospel with a host of people. One couple in particular stood out. They were Hispanic...
Alec Gonzales
Sep 82 min read
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Practice is Play
For a long time now, I’ve enjoyed practicing golf in my backyard. Nothing fancy, just a net and a chipping area. And when it comes to...
Alec Gonzales
Sep 32 min read
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Brian Mack interview
https://youtu.be/SAqJetFN90U?si=AtQWwhpErlnu0SXb
Alec Gonzales
Aug 311 min read
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How to Effectively Recover from Burnout
Burnout is real, it can be sneaky and silent. Taking time to look deeply into your soul for signs of it can be deeply helpful & rewarding.
Alec Gonzales
Aug 304 min read
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Multiple language Gospel app
https://youtu.be/Elp9J95Wnx0
Alec Gonzales
Aug 301 min read
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What is Spiritual Direction
https://youtu.be/qCfV5aPnq-s?si=9KLKQq2FZsylsHm6
Alec Gonzales
Aug 281 min read
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Heavy & Large Stones to Carry? Share the Load
Let Others Carry the Stones: A Word for Rural Pastors When Joshua led the people of Israel into the Promised Land, it wasn’t just a story...
Alec Gonzales
Aug 274 min read
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Your family or your ministry: who gets your best?
In ministry, the demands never stop. Sermons, meetings, and the needs of people can easily consume your best energy. But here’s the hard...
Alec Gonzales
Aug 261 min read
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Navigating Transition: A Guide for Pastors and Ministry Leaders
Embracing Change in Leadership Every pastor, business owner, and leader knows this truth: transition always takes more time than...
Alec Gonzales
Aug 253 min read
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True Religion is Light and Easy
True Religion: Light and Easy It’s fun to be in a relationship with God. Truly fun. Delightful. Charming. The Scriptures even dare to...
Alec Gonzales
Aug 211 min read
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Praying the Examen, a Daily Reflection
If there’s one practice I come back to again and again in my own life and with those I coach it’s the examen. The examen is a way of...
Alec Gonzales
Aug 204 min read
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Protecting your focus in a world of interruptions
One of the themes that has been coming up again and again in recent coaching conversations is the challenge of staying focused. You sit...
Alec Gonzales
Aug 152 min read
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